So today was Mother’s day.
We went to the city to spend time with Jim’s 96-year-old Mom. She is wonderful and was really in great spirits while we were there.
Then we went to see my Mom and Babcis.
This gravestone marker always served as our guide where my Mom’s Mom, or my Babci was buried nearby. My parents are buried by my Dad’s Mom, or my other Babci. There is something surreal as you get older and have no one left to see: everyone has left you behind.Sure, I get exercise getting to the graves, and since we travel a while to get there, I walk the girls on the road so we can get some steps in.But still, you become enveloped in loss. Not only do you realize your immediate family is gone but you recognize names on the gravestones around you. If you don’t realize that you ARE the adult now and the circle of life.
It was still something of a comfort to be at my Mom’s grave, and not just talking and praying for her from a distance. I believe she is always with me.
I miss my Mom.I miss her every day and this part of the year only accents the sadness of missing her.
My comfort is that I know she is in heaven.
I am celebrating this weekend with Jim,as my mother-in-law is 95 and we need to celebrate her.We are going to her house on Saturday so all the daughters who are grandmothers can spend Sunday with their kids. Jim’s sister, Kathy will join us on Sunday and we’ll take my mother-in-law to the casino.
I will be praying and remembering my Mom and Babcis this weekend, stopping at the cemetery.
To all of those celebrating, have a wonderful Mother’s Day weekend.
Below is one of the last pictures I took of my Mom in 2011, while she was resting in her hospital bed.
Well, we are up early.
It’s a bleary day. Sunshine, though, for all of you reading this, if your Moms are still with us.
For those of you, like me, well, your Mom is in heaven, so we have that ray of sunshine breaking through the clouds today….send some sunshine up to heaven back.After all , Mom is waiting to get your gift.
The weekend is over,and we’ll have to leave Undisclosed for a few weeks, in order to spend time in the city.
Mothers’ day is next Sunday, and we want to spend time with Shingleman’s Mom. In between all of that, there’s work, packing, trashing , and trying to take care of life as we know it.
Hope you have a good week, dear reader. Take time out for you!
So having left Undisclosed location last weekend, I knew that it was going to be a long week… Boy, did I call that!
I suffered through a clown college** read office here* meeting yesterday. My nephew Matt receives his Masters’ degree tomorrow night- I would not miss that for the world! Saturday will be hard, physically and mentally, as Jim and I will be working on cleaning up Mom’s house. Sunday I ‘ll be stopping at the cemetery on the way to my mother-in-law’s.
Did I mention I miss undisclosed?…….