….at least for me!
Today is my 22nd anniversary of my 1st cancer, and the protocol I was fortunate enough to get into at Jefferson Hospital, and have Dr.Charles J.Dunton as my oncologic gynecologist.
Chemotherapy ,radiation and a hysterectomy later, I was blessed to be good to go.
I’ve had two other cancers since then, breast and thyroid, and mercifully I got through them. It pained me , though, that I lost my 18 year old niece ,Alyx, to a mid brain tumor, and yet I was still here, thanks to my employer’s health plan.
This is always an anniversary for me: it reminds me God’s not done with me yet.
I have a buddy here at Undisclosed.
Oh yeah…shocker. I have a buddy.
Well, I do have a few, but this one is a fellow cancer survivor, for now. She is once again dealing with the ugly beast beating at her door.
Her cancer is back, but this time with a vengeance.
Her breast cancer has spread to her spine.There aren’t too many folks around here who understand what folks who have cancer feel, which is what drew the both of us together.Now that it is back, while I am here full-time, she has to start daily radiation and chemo. I told her that since I am not working, if she’s around, and wants company, to text me and I’d go over and keep her company.
I have learned not to promise someone with cancer that there is tomorrow, because there may not be. I can help them with their journey as folks have helped me. Fortunately I have, for now, made it through.But even for us who have “made it through”, no one gets a guarantee.
All I can do is to pray for her and be a friend. It’s a scary time, and no one should go it alone.
I am going in tomorrow for a few hours in order to give blood.
Before cancer, I always used to donate blood.After my radiation and chemotherapy, I stopped. I assumed that they wouldn’t want my blood. A few years ago, I found out that I was eligible to
give again, and so I did.
I know that blood is needed to save lives. I am thankful I am still here:this is just a little way of paying it forward.